30 days submission - Day 10

Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)? 

BDSM is a huge part of my relationship. It is primarily a Dom-sub dynamic which in and of itself is all about BDSM. In terms of our sexual life together it can feature but it is not always part of it.

An example of this would be the last time Daddy was down. We had sex that wasn’t what you would call “rough”. It was passionate and slow in parts so I could enjoy the moments. I was able to look into his eyes and enjoy the connection with him. That I wouldn’t say is necessarily a kink as much as it was sensual. Later, we had much rougher sex which involved lots of breath play and subsequently some passing out on my part. That is definitely not sensual but still has an element of passion.

Out with sex, I must always address him as Daddy and I still follow the rules that go with that. So, although we don’t see each other much, we are always in our roles.

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