30 days submission - Day 4

Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline 
relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in 
BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s 
not for you?

In my relationship I am always the submissive. My Daddy is not the kind of Dom who would be able to be submissive. Even when he lets me pretend I am in charge, like when I playfully spank him, it's not really a switch cause I am always looking for markers to show boundaries and to be honest, I'm not able to really get into it as I couldn’t bring myself to hurt him. I don't feel right doing it. So, no I'm definitely the submissive in this relationship.

It would be a lie if I said I hadn't thought about wanting to try being a Domme. I have on occasion thought about what I would do if I was to have someone submit to me, however in every scenario when I think about it it's with another woman. The idea of another man besides Daddy touching me, even as me being the Domme, makes me feel uncomfortable. His is the only cock I want.

In terms of control though that's kind of a vague question. As a sub I am ultimately in control as I can tell him at any point to stop by using the safe word and he will. In that instance I have the control. However, I do give Daddy my submission willingly which includes control over me.

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