I'm just me.

I'm a single mum who lives in the West coast of Scotland with her teenage son and a growing plant collection.

I love horror, being creative, laughing till my stomach hurts and coffee. I like to inhabit the weird and wonderful side of life.

After years of living a "vanilla life", i have kicked very firmly against it and am now exploring the wonderful world of BDSM with my partner and Dom - Daddy, who is quite possibly the love of my life.

This blog is a diary of my adventures and any advice or tips i find along the way.

If you like what you read and wanna be nice and buy me a coffee, its always appreciated.