What are the emotions that most directly let you access submission? What feelings do they inspire?

For me, I am able to get deeply into submission when I feel safe, confident, and loved – not sure if they all count as emotions but it’s how I get there. Another big part is that Daddy has been able to take me out of my head.

This is not easy for me as I have only really been able to get fully into sub space a couple of times but when I have been able to – or he has been able to pull me out of my head long enough – it’s been mind blowing and something I have never before experienced. I feel like I’m forever going to be chasing that high.

When I am with Daddy though I do feel so safe and loved. Simple things like how he always is touching me. Even of we are just sitting on the sofa, he is cuddling in. When we are in the car, he has his hand on my leg or in my hand. I always feel protected and loved. And I know that when we are in play mode – especially if its hard play – he will never seriously hurt me or do anything to damage me. He takes such good care of me mind and body so it’s extremely easy to be submissive to him.