I am in a relationship with my Dom, who I call Daddy. I submit to him and him alone which is done in a multitude of ways.

• I must always address him properly as Daddy. The only exemptions to this are when it wouldn’t be appropriate for me to do so – being in a crowded area, or socialising with certain family or friends which would make them uncomfortable. In those instances, I can call him by his name or by “baby".
• If he gives me an order or a rule, I must follow it. Similarly, if he gives me a command - like come here I must follow that order. This can be a vocal command or him simple getting my attention and pointing front of him, which means I need to either stand there or kneel there.
• I have regular challenges given that I must complete, and I must at all times take care of myself as I am his property.

I am exclusively his as he is mine. I cannot and will not share or be shared. Although I am not collared or married to Daddy, I am happily his and I as far as I am concerned, I am owned by him. This is something that bothers my female friends who are in vanilla relationships as the idea of a man owning a woman seems barbaric to them. The reality is though his ownership of me is a gift and should it be abused it can be withdrawn. Similarly, too although I wouldn't use the term owned when I refer to him, for all intents and purposes, he is mine.

D/s is a major part of our relationship. Although we are long distance at the moment, I do feel like it is a 24/7 lifestyle for me. At all times, even though text or call, I must show my Daddy respect and I follow the rules and challenges that he lays out for me on a daily basis so his absence in my day to day life is simply his physical being. We are in regular contact every day, so he is always connected to me.