I seem to have quite an open view about porn compared to my female friends. Some of them are totally against it and actually “ban” their partners from looking at it. I genuinely don’t care if my partner looks at porn. So long as it’s legal and consenting and doesn’t develop into an addiction then so be it. He is an adult, and he can choose to look at porn in the same way that I can.
The only time I have an issue with porn is when that becomes the “normal” as that can cause problems in relationships.
I have had a partner in the past who wanted to do all this shit he seen in porn. I was up for some of it but it just escalated to more and more things I wasn’t ready for at that time and then it got to where he couldn’t ejaculate unless he was watching porn. That was a lot of 16/17 year old me, so I was out.
I’ve never understood the idea that porn is cheating. That’s like saying finding a Hollywood actor attractive is cheating. It’s simply adult entertainment that can add to the relationship in some ways.
I’ve never understood the idea that porn is cheating. That’s like saying finding a Hollywood actor attractive is cheating. It’s simply adult entertainment that can add to the relationship in some ways.
Making your own for example.
I’ve made Daddy a spank bank full of videos in the triple digits. I like knowing I turn him on that much and he had his own personal porn star. There is no harm in it. I trust him not to share the videos and pictures which is a huge deal for me and I have few videos of him which I use to play with too ... Its all done in fun.
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